Often you will find people in this world who are eager to put the blame of their failure on others. Often are these people wrong in doing so. The language of victimization is the true victimizer. A great crippler of spirits it is.
No one governs your destiny but you. The ultimate quality of your life is determined by the choice that you make: to play the victim or the victor.
By blaming others for our circumstances we subscribe to the philosophy that we are mere organisms acted upon by social and economic forces than an agent with a free will. It is like denying the very quality that separates us from animals. No one succeeded by blaming his parents, his race, his bad luck or quirks of fate. Everyone has it within us to stand up, take responsibility for our life and say, “This I am today; that I will be tomorrow. “

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  1. Comfortably Numb  

    Short and effective...And yes losers actively put their hands up for joining hands in the blame game..And that going to take them no where :)

    Cheers!

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  2. Anonymous  

    very nice post and you are right about blame game

  3. Jil Jil Ramamani  

    reminded me of the ad on tv -forgot which one...the one where sachin says dont blame others for ur follies.,

  4. Anonymous  

    hmm seems a good read for kids.

    Keep it up. Some kids may get help from these musings if they need!

  5. Misty Rhythm  

    nicely put :)

  6. Pranay  

    awsome... u said almost everytng in such a few words..
    i thnk its only people who are weak within who put blame on others or on circumstances for wht they are...

  7. •sowmya•  

    oh yes..! very true..! this blame game has begun ages ago and continues even now... well a very nice post and well put..!

    cheers! :)

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